Safety & Respect
Recovery grows in an atmosphere of trust and respect. Everyone attending A.A. should be able to focus on recovery without harassment, intimidation, discrimination, or pressure to accept someone else’s beliefs.
We all have a part in making meetings welcoming and as safe as possible—for newcomers and longtime members alike.
Respect and Personal Boundaries
A.A. welcomes people of all backgrounds, beliefs, and identities. Recovery does not require accepting harassment, bullying, discrimination, unwanted sexual attention, or financial pressure.
You have the right to say no, set personal boundaries, and choose whom you trust. A sponsor or fellow member can offer shared experience, but should not pressure you about religious beliefs, medical treatment, or prescribed medication. Medical decisions belong with you and a qualified healthcare professional.
If Something Feels Wrong
If someone’s behaviour makes you uncomfortable or unsafe, you can speak with a trusted member, the meeting chair, or a group representative. You may bring a trusted person with you for support. Concerns can also involve behaviour outside meeting times.
You do not have to confront someone yourself or wait for a group discussion before seeking help. If there is immediate danger, move to safety and call 911. A.A. anonymity does not prevent anyone from reporting harm or contacting the authorities.
Our Common Welfare
Creating safer meetings is a shared responsibility. Groups can discuss concerns through their group conscience, establish practical guidelines, and seek appropriate help when needed. Respecting personal boundaries and welcoming differences helps keep the focus on recovery.
For more detailed guidance, read “Safety and A.A.: Our Common Welfare,” service material from the General Service Office of Alcoholics Anonymous.